January 2011

The geekdaughter’s understanding of writing and reading is devloping so fast at the moment, and I’m loving watching it! She’s suddenly got a real interest in trying to write, and is constantly borrowing my pens and notebook to write things for me.

So studious...

Last week I was busily writing out our shopping list, and she said she wanted to write a shopping list too. Here it is:

The geekdaughter's shopping list

Thankfully she told me what she was writing each time. Most of the lines apparently say “pasta”, but towards the end she got a bit more adventurous, and the last few lines are “sausages”, “mash”, “mash”, “beans”, “mash” and “tomato ketchup”!!

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I am committed to bringing my children up to eat healthily. The geekdaddy and I have slipped into some very bad habits over the years, in terms of eating too many takeaways and too much chocolate and junk food. It’s something we’re both trying to address at the moment, and it’s something we really don’t want to happen to our kids.

Just call me Annabel Karmel

When I weaned the geekdaughter I followed the latest advice and waited until she was 6 months before offering her solids. When I started weaning I weaned exclusively on home-made vegetable and fruit purees. I bought every book Annabel Karmel had ever written, and frequently spent an afternoon in the kitchen making batches of food and freezing it in little ice cube trays. I really enjoyed it.

I heard about Ella’s Kitchen at our local doctor’s surgery post-natal group. Their stage 1 pouches were mentioned as being healthy and easy to carry around when you’re out. I loved the idea, and always had several in the kitchen cupboard and the change bag. They were extremely handy.

Two months ago we started weaning the geekson, and I wanted to do the same puree thing again. However, now being a busy mum of two I struggle to find enough hours in the day to get all the housework done, let alone the time to cook big batches of food to freeze for him. Thankfully we are now eating healthy family meals together, and so a lot of the time I can simply puree whatever I’ve cooked for the rest of the family, however there are still times, particularly tea times, when I need an easy to prepare meal for him to eat on his own.

So when the lovely people at Ella’s Kitchen contacted me to see if I was interested in sampling their latest baby food products, I leapt at the chance. Just before Christmas a box of goodies arrived, and the geekson and I set about trying them all out. The range has certainly expanded in the last three years, and I’ve really enjoyed trying some new things and revisting old favourites.

Stage 1 purees

These remain very much as I remember them, although the range has expanded, with many more flavours being available now. I love these. No additives or preservatives, just what you see on the label pureed and ready to serve straight from the pouch. So convenient for when you’re out and about – I just squeeze the contents of the pouch straight onto the spoon. Once opened you can store the pouch in the fridge and it’s good for 48 hours, so if your baby has a small appetite you can make one last a couple of days. The geekson has a large appetite and quite happily devoured these pouches with no leftovers. Well apart from what was left all over his face!!

If I have any criticism of the stage 1 pouches it is that sometimes there is too high a percentage of fruit in the mix and not enough vegetable for my preferences. The “spinach, apples and swede” pouch pictured is 55% apple, whilst the “broccoli, pears and peas” variety is 79% pears. I know it’s very common to mix fruit and vegetables together in baby food, but my personal preference would be for a higher vegetable content. Certainly now weaning is established with the geekson I am trying to shape meals so that he has a “savoury” first, followed by a pudding, and these pouches are more like both rolled in to one. I am delighted to see a couple of pouches that are 100% vegetable join the range – the “sweetcorn, pumpkin and peas” one was an immediate hit with the geekson, and he enjoyed the “sweet potatoes, broccoli and carrots” pouch too (although that one has been out of stock at my local supermaket for the last few weeks). Those are the varieties which I prefer to buy for him.

Stage 1 “baby brekkie”

Next we tried the “baby brekkie” product, which again the geekson devoured happily, although I must say I found this runnier than I expected, and would have preferred it to be a little thicker. It had a tendancy to drip off the spoon between pouch and mouth, and we got into quite a mess with it. It struck me that this product would be more useful at the early stages of weaning, and now that we’ve got solids pretty well established I’d rather give the geekson some porridge (with a fruit puree mixed in) than something like this. However if the geekdaddy ever takes us all away for a weekend somewhere (hey, I can dream, right?!) it’s the kind of thing that would be handy to have around.

Baby cookies

These were an immediate hit with both the geekson and me. The box contains 12 baby biscuits, wrapped in pairs – perfect for tucking inside the change bag, or just grabbing when you need them. I like to keep a few finger foods in the house for after meals, to keep the geekson distracted whilst the rest of us finish eating, and so he can practise feeding himself, and these are perfect. The biscuits are very soft and crumbly and “melt in the mouth” so I had no concerns that the geekson might choke on them. The only downside of these biscuits is that they are very messy – because they are go soft and mushy in the mouth they also tend to be soft and mushy on the hands, and on the clothes and in the hair. But this weaning lark is a messy process anyway, so I don’t see that as much of a downside!

Stacks of Sticks

I was really excited to discover that Ella’s Kitchen are now making breadsticks. I remember finding it hard to choose suitable breadsticks to feed the geekdaughter, as I was unsure whether they were too salty or not. Ella’s Kitchen breadsticks follow their same standards as all their other products – organic, no additives, just good healthy stuff. They’re smaller than other breadsticks, perfect for little hands. Despite the fact they say they are suitable from 12 months I’ve allowed both the geekson and the geekdaughter to try these, and they both liked them.

The real test though is whether I would actually buy these products myself, and I must say that since trying them I have spent a small fortune buying more of the things because, quite frankly, I don’t have as much time to cook and puree things this time around! The only product I haven’t bought again is the baby brekkie, which didn’t grab me as much as the others. My favourite product is definitely the baby cookies, and the geekson agrees!

Disclosure: I was sent samples of the above products for review

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At the start of this month, it was reported that a group of academics have come up with an application which will calculate, with 99% accuracy, the likelihood of success of any IVF (In-Vitro Fertilisation) cycle.

I make no secret of the fact that both my kids were conceived via IVF. The geekdaddy and I were told it was our only chance at having kids, following years of trying and a number of other fertility treatments. We feel hugely lucky that our first cycle resulted in the geekdaughter, and our second cycle (using embryos frozen from our first cycle) resulted in the geekson.

I’ve tried the online IVF success calculator, which tells me that the geekdaughter was 25.5% likely and the geekson was 28.9% likely (the main reason for the difference being that we already had one successful cycle under our belts when we did the geekson’s cycle).

My question is how useful is this information, and more importantly can it be misused? Would it have helped us in any way to know these figures before undergoing treatment. More importantly, are people going to start relying on these figures to make policy or funding decisions on IVF treatment?

When we started our IVF treatment, we were told our chances of success were about 30%. We didn’t hesitate. We wanted to make sure we had taken all the chances we had at having children. In fact I think if we’d been told our chances were less than 10% we’d have still wanted to give it a go. If nothing else, your first IVF cycle is great for diagnostic reasons – it’s the first time you can verify that your eggs and your husbands sperm can fuse together to produce an embryo. In fact I made our consultant laugh because I went through our cycle saying it was just a trial run, and I wasn’t expecting it to work anyway!

We were lucky. We were in a position to fund our own IVF treatment, and it really is the best money we’ve ever spent. But many couples are not. Many couples rely on the NHS for that last chance of their own child. We are very fortunate here in the UK that we have our health system, but it is already facing a funding crisis, and there are those who say that the NHS should not be funding fertility treatment. What are those people going to do with a tool like this – will they look at a couple like us and say “sorry, your chances are less than 30%, we’re not funding your treatment”.

At the end of the day, statistics can be a useful tool, but they shouldn’t be the be-all and end-all. And these statistics are based on what has been, not necessarily what will be. Every financial investment plan comes with a disclaimer that says “past performance is no guarantee of future success” and I think this tool should have the same. By all means input your data into it and see what it says. But remember, everyone’s cycle is different, and this tool can not say for sure what the outcome of your cycle will be.

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If you hadn’t already guessed, I love my iPad and my iPhone, and I’m always on the lookout for new apps, both for me and for the geek-kids. So I was delighted to find the 2010 Best App Ever Awards. This is an annual award, now in its third year. There are two categories I am particularly interested in: Best Kids App and Best Parenting App. There’s also some relevant things in the Best eBook App category as well.

I’ve had a quick look through the nominees in both categories, and there’s a few I’ve got already, and a number I haven’t even heard of. I’m particularly excited to discover that one of my favourite books, The Velveteen Rabbit, has been adapted for iPhone and iPad, narrated by none other than Meryl Streep!

I’m going to have a happy time checking out all the listed apps, and I’ll report back on any I particularly like :)

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I want to be a Mumpreneur!

January 17, 2011

I have set my goals for 2011, and two of those are to find a second income stream, and to embrace opportunities which present themselves. I’ve been following a free eCourse written by Erica Douglas and Antonia Chitty – From Mum to Mumpreneur in a Month – from which I’ve picked up some very useful [...]

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Potty training update: By George, I think she’s got it!!

January 16, 2011

I’ve been really hesistant about talking about potty training, for fear of somehow jinxing things, or invoking some kind of a relapse. However, last Monday, the geekdaughter came home from nursery with what was left from the last pack of pull-ups I sent in for her. Yes, nursery are now so confident in her toilet [...]

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Review: Ladybird Baby Touch: Peekaboo by Penguin Books

January 12, 2011

I was interested to read in Nipper News this week that Penguin Books have launched the first eBook application for the iPhone aimed at babies. I had to test it out! Ladybird Baby Touch: Peekaboo is available in the iTunes app store for £1.79. It runs on both the iPhone and iPad, and is described [...]

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I don’t do New Year resolutions… Oh, hang on a minute…

January 9, 2011

I don’t have a very good record with New Year’s resolutions. I can’t think of a single one I’ve managed to keep going for the whole year. So this year I have decided to join an increasing number of my friends who are trying to set specific goals for the year, instead of rather wooly [...]

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Charity begins at home… Or does it?

January 4, 2011

Since Christmas I’ve been having an ongoing discussion with the geekdaughter about the number of toys she and her brother now possess, and trying to get her used to the idea of giving some of them up. I have explained that there are poor children who didn’t get any Christmas presents this year, and it [...]

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